Tuesday, November 22, 2005

Dangerous Crossing



Warning: Hula-Hooper Crossing!

Maybe not the best, but still a fine example of culture jamming, this appears in Virginia Kendall park near the Octagon. We thought it was so funny when we saw it a few months ago that we went back to take pictures.

Wednesday, November 16, 2005

Tuesday, November 15, 2005

Goodbye Autumn

What a lovely autumn this was! I’m sad to see it go. Even with my annual bout with bronchitis, I was still able to experience the delights of the season – the occasional whif of dying leaves through my congested sinuses – that distinct crispness that makes me smile no matter what. The cool air in the evenings. The crunch of the leaves underfoot on walks with my husband. And, call me crazy, but I just love carving pumpkins; I love digging my fingers into the goop inside and smelling that rich smell of pulp, then, of course, toasting the seeds.

I traced fall’s gait in the brilliantly colored trees just outside my entrance into work, which greeted me every morning. First, they only had a bit of red on the edges and were still a dark green in the middle. Gradually, the red grew and the tree caught fire. Finally, though, after a blustery weekend, the trees that greeted me Monday morning looked much more naked, but were still proud and holding on to those last few leaves. Now the wind comes stronger and the rain is heavier, and the forecast says snow in a couple of days.

Fall is all too short, but it remains the season that makes me happiest. This autumn was particularly special, with our wedding in September and us settling into our new home. There was something about the cool air and the dim golden light at dusk that always made the house seem that much cozier.

Our first fall in our new home also brought other firsts. It was the first Halloween that we could pass out candy from a front door that was our own, and even though it didn’t quite live up to the Romantic concept I had in my mind, I loved it. Candy shopping was a bit of a challenge; I guess I was a bit late, and some of the stores had already begun to stock . . . gasp . . . Christmas stuff. (I could go on, but I’ll save that for another post.) Then I filled my Disney Villain ice bucket (the Evil Queen always points outward when displayed – she is, after all, The Best Villain Ever), put away my own private stash of candy (at least I know Steve will leave it alone) lit the candles in the pumpkins on the porch, turned the porch light on, and waited. I imagine I looked like a toddler on Christmas morning, standing on tiptoe to peep out the windows in our front door for the first visitors. I didn’t have to wait long; they started to come early. We saw many little Batmen, Darth Vaders, and princesses. One little girl, probably about four, explained when I opened the door for her, in a voice that was both exasperated and matter-of-fact beyond her years, "I can’t reach your doorbell." She was still stretching for it when I dropped a Kit Kat into her bucket. I gave her a DumDum sucker, too, because I liked her so much; it was little ones like her who were my favorites. I realized that, while there weren’t many like her, weren’t many who said both "Trick-or-Treat" and "thank you," weren’t many who seemed to enjoy the getting of the candy as much as the candy itself, it was the ones like her that made it worth it – even when I had to dip into my private stash when the ice bucket was empty.

Steve and I also got to vote together for the first time, finally living in the same district. We drove the whole minute and a half down to the park lodge that was named on my little voting card. There, walking in, I was reminded that voting is so important, so responsible, so . . . quaint. The lodge smelled like the kindling stacked next to the fireplace, and also a bit like my grandmother’s house. Nice little old ladies asked for our names and directed us into curtained booths, where, carefully and responsibly, we cast our votes. Then said little old ladies dropped our punched ballots, sans hanging chads (which we had dutifully removed per the sign inside the booth), into locking boxes . . . that were unlocked. We at once felt both proud of ourselves for having done our civic duty and sadly pedestrian.

In honor of the passing season, I was going to attach some photographs that I took a few weeks ago when Steve and I went apple picking, but I'm having technical difficulties. But apple pictures will be posted as soon as I figure out what's going wrong. But in the meantime . . . anyone want a pie? I have plenty of apples left . . .

Friday, October 28, 2005

Mini Review: Audrey Niffenegger’s The Time Traveler’s Wife

I had heard of this and found it among the books on cd at the library. I’m always been a little leery of audio books because they are abridged, but sometimes I get one when I don’t think I’ll have time to actually read the book. So, instead of curling up with it in bed, I listen as I drive to and from work. So, I usually look for floofy books that won’t get me so involved that I’ll steer off the road, and that won’t make me ashamed that I didn’t actually read the book.

Something about this book – I think (I’m embarrassed) it was the cover – made me think it was floofy. It turned out to be quite intelligent and beautiful. In fact, I had to take the last disk into work to finish it because I was so entranced I couldn’t wait for the drive home.

Henry is a time-traveler; Clare is his wife. They first meet when she is a child and he visits her from the future. They marry when the meet in the "present" and the story of their lives together is told, skillfully, in the scattered moments they share when he travels to her, and in the longer moments while he’s not travelling. It’s not science fiction; it’s an absorbing and poignant love story.

It’s a gorgeous story, and certainly worth reading (or listening to). The audio book has two voices, one for Henry and one for Clare. Easy and enjoyable listening. I think I might pick up the print version so I can actually read it next time . . .

And now a word . . .

If you haven’t discovered Il Divo yet, it’s time. I just got their new Christmas album, and it’s amazing. Their first (self-titled) cd is one of my favorites. They sing like angels. I don’t believe they’re human . . .

Friday, October 21, 2005

Mrs.

Last Monday, Steve and I made it to our one month anniversary – though Steve insists there is no such thing. I say it’s a "monthaversary", but he seems to think that if we have to make up a word for it, it’s not real. I don’t care. I’m just looking forward to our second monthaversary.

Married life is wonderful! While I don’t think either one of us felt any different at first (I remember muttering, as "Ode to Joy" surged for our recessional, "I don't feel any different. When will I feel different?), I think we are settling in and getting used to the idea that we are married! (Nothing brings it home like seeing the ring on his finger.) We have made a home for ourselves, and it is a true comfort to just be together there – to just be. We don’t even have to be doing anything in particular – just watching a movie or cooking dinner together – no matter what, we feel like we are home. But this isn’t a surprise. Steve told me before the wedding that we’ve had this strong a relationship for quite a while. We certainly felt married – united and committed – long before our wedding. It is a beautiful idea, and one I agree with wholeheartedly.

I am still wrestling with the reality of my new last name . . . I’m slowly getting it changed officially, but I still write and say my old name sometimes out of habit. It’s so hard to get used to the new one! I’ve changed it on a few things at work, ordered my new ssn card (two last names, sans hyphen), and made a surprisingly painless visit to the BMV for my new driver’s license. I imagine my new name written on a page with branches coming from it as the name spreads over my existence. Men are so lucky.

Before the wedding, the house was the victim of a flurry of planning activity. Now, it has quieted but has the remains of the wedding and reception lying about. The gifts are all unwrapped, sitting in our living room waiting to be put away. At least I was able to get rid of all the wrapping paper, much to George’s disappointment.

I know a few of you are wondering where all the pictures are. Stay tuned. I will soon have some posted, as well as more on the adventures and misadventures of Sir George. Every day is an adventure!

Monday, October 17, 2005

Come In

"If you are a dreamer, come in.
If you are a dreamer, a wisher, a liar,
A hope-er, a pray-er, a magic bean buyer . . .
If you're a pretender, come sit by my fire,
For we have some flax golden tales to spin.
Come in!
Come in!"
~Shel Silverstein


Welcome to my One Little Room, an exploration of my everywhere, inhabited by my husband, my friends, my family, and a menagerie of pets. The walls are covered with pictures, and the bookshelves are stacked to overflowing. There are a couple unfinished crochet projects tucked into the corner, and if you look closely, you’re likely to find some orange cat hairs here and there. The fire will keep you warm, as we curl up in the big comfy chairs, listen to the mingling of voices, and watch the crossing of many paths and personalities, tastes and desires. I hope you enjoy exploring with me.

What does your everywhere look like?

Here is a website worthy of note: I stumbled upon this website in my search for the poem above, http://shelsilverstein.com. Mr. Silverstein has been one of my favorite poets ever since I was old enough to read, and possibly even before.